Dreams, when shared, often lose their troubling aspect. This principle holds true for sexual desires and fantasies as well. In a professional and confidential capacity, I am equipped to guide you in harmonizing your sexuality with your life, aligning with your unique vision. Whether your aim is to deepen your self-awareness, explore novel experiences within your partnership, or simply engage in open dialogue about your personal aspirations and desires, my expertise prominently lies in BDSM, applicable across diverse life situations.
Counselling is at the centre of my work: we can talk through wishes, uncertainties, boundaries and relationships. Practical guidance on BDSM techniques is available when it is useful to you.
My services encompass a broad spectrum:
Consultation on All Facets of Sexuality, Eroticism, and Partnership:
This service offers comprehensive advice on various aspects of sexual well-being and relationship dynamics.
Analysis of Kink Wishes, Dreams, and Fantasies: A focused exploration to understand and interpret your specific kink-oriented desires, helping you gain clarity and insight.
Couples Counselling and Optional Practical Guidance in BDSM:
Tailored conversations for couples about communication, boundaries and shared wishes. Practical guidance on BDSM techniques can be included if you want it.
BDSM Counselling for LGBTQ+ Individuals:
Specialized support and advice for members of the LGBTQ+ community, addressing the unique intersection of BDSM preferences and sexual identity.
Support for Kink Professionals:
Dedicated assistance for professionals in the kink realm, offering insights, strategies, and support tailored to their specific needs and challenges.
My commitment is to provide a safe, open, and non-judgmental space where your most personal thoughts and desires can be explored and integrated into your life, leading to a more fulfilling and authentic existence.
Questions before you book
Do I need BDSM experience?
No. You might have a new fantasy, a specific question or years of experience. We start with your situation, rather than a fixed idea of what BDSM should look like. Read more for beginners.
Can we come as a couple?
Yes. We can talk about different interests, how to share wishes with each other, and how to agree on boundaries that work for both of you. Read more about relationships.
How do online consultations begin?
The first conversation is about 30 minutes and free. You can choose a video or telephone call, or begin by writing. Further sessions are arranged afterward according to your needs. Read about the process and costs.
Would you like to talk through your own questions? Contact Jen for an initial conversation or read about the coaching process and costs.

